Lzzy Hale doesn't do things halfway. Not onstage, not in an interview, and apparently not in love.
On March 5, Halestorm's Lzzy Hale and guitarist Joe Hottinger sat down at the Grammy Museum in Los Angeles for a conversation moderated by music journalist Katherine Turman. They talked about the making of Everest, their experience performing at Ozzy Osbourne's landmark "Back to the Beginning" show, and what the last two-plus decades of Halestorm have looked like from the inside. They also played an acoustic set — including "The Silence," the closing track off 2018's Vicious.
But the moment that's sticking with people came when Lzzy opened up about something she's largely kept quiet for the better part of two decades: her relationship with Joe.
"Man, It Sucks That He's in the Band"
By Lzzy's account, there was a moment early on when she and Joe knew what was happening and neither of them wanted to say it out loud.
"When we met, we had never met anyone like each other," she told the Grammy Museum audience. "You actually wanna sit till four in the morning and manifest our dreams and make them into reality. And so we were hanging out all the time and I'm, like, 'Man, it sucks that he's in the band.' That's a big no-no."
The obvious reference point — the one every rock musician dreads — is Fleetwood Mac. The revolving door of relationships, breakups, and overlapping affairs that became as much a part of the band's story as the music. As Joe himself noted earlier in the evening, that's not the blueprint you want to follow.
But Lzzy and Joe had a different model in mind: Pat Benatar and Neil Giraldo. Married since 1982, still performing together, still going. No public implosions, no dramatic breakups rewritten into hit singles. Just two people who decided to build something and kept building it.
"You can't predict those things," Lzzy said. "So we had these very adult conversations... 'Cause we were very immaturely flirting. We were flirting, but pretending we're not."
22 Years of Getting It Right
Lzzy confirmed she and Joe have been together for 22 years. That's the entire arc of Halestorm as a serious band — from their independent years through their Atlantic Records debut, through Grammy wins and lineup changes and world tours and a pandemic. Every milestone the band has hit, they've hit together.
"I will tell you over the last 22 years, there is nothing like having all of these firsts and chasing your dream," she said. "Doing the thing that you love with the person you love."
It's a simple statement, but context makes it land hard. Halestorm went from teenagers playing Pennsylvania bars to Grammy-winning hard rock headliners. Whatever pressure that puts on a relationship — the proximity, the pressure, the shared stakes — they've weathered all of it.
On the marriage question: Lzzy has been asked about it before, and her answer has been consistent. In a 2020 Twitter Q&A, she said she's simply never had the desire. "Personal preference," she said at the time. There's a ring involved — passed down, she noted — but no ceremony planned. That's their call, and nobody else's.
Halestorm in 2026
The Grammy Museum appearance comes as Halestorm continues to tour in support of Everest, the 2022 album that arrived after a particularly brutal stretch of personal and global upheaval. Everest leaned into the weight of all that — it's the most emotionally exposed record Lzzy has put her name on, and it landed accordingly.
The Ozzy "Back to the Beginning" show remains one of the year's bigger milestones for any band lucky enough to be on that stage. Being asked to perform at what many expect to be the final major tribute to Ozzy Osbourne says something about where Halestorm stands in the scene right now.
No new album announcement has come yet. But a band this locked in — musically and personally — usually finds its way back to the studio.
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